What do you think is your greatest source of joy in life? Is it financial success? Is it fame, love, approval or lots of friends? Before you attempt these questions, take your time and reflect on your life. What keeps you going? What makes you happy?
Research reveals that most of the things highlighted above only provide temporary happiness and satisfaction. To find deep and long-lasting joy, you need to find a unique way of life that impacts other people. Kindness and sharing of love are the most significant sources of true happiness in life. Most of the people who share their possessions, ideas, and experiences with others tend to have a deep sense of satisfaction.
You have probably shared something with friends, relatives, or strangers at one point in your life. Did you feel excited that the other person was happy about your kind gesture? The incredible feeling in your heart after sharing what you have cannot be compared with the joy of holding on to it. This is especially so if the recipient appreciated the gift. What if your loved one didn’t receive your gift with love? Well, that is a story for another day.
You don’t always have to share material possession to enjoy the deep sense of satisfaction and true happiness. You can share what you have. What you have could mean ideas, advice, stories, or a concept on how to achieve something. You can share your experience with others and experience love and satisfaction that comes with it. Getting financial success or receiving any items do not compare to the joy of sharing what you have with others.
Most people focus on getting love, money, and approval. They rarely concentrate on sharing the love and personal experiences with others. When you try to get love from the world, your heart is closed, and it is quite hard to find happiness. Once you open up your heart and share what you have, it will be quite easy to get love in return. True love, joy and satisfaction come from within us. When you do well, you are likely to feel good. Rather than focusing on influencing others to love you, it is advisable to concentrate on doing well. This will open up your heart, and others will respond accordingly.
It is also essential to have the right mindset when sharing your experiences, ideas, or material things. What you give doesn’t matter more than your intention. Don’t always give so that you can receive. Give to enjoy the happiness and satisfaction that goes with it. People who were born and raised in supportive families share the love. Those who come from abusive families are unable to show love through sharing.
Fortunately, you have come across this article, and have learned how to transform your life and get real happiness. If you have had good or bad experiences, start by sharing your experiences with others. This will make you feel better. You will also teach others and encourage them to share their experiences too.